Nope, I didn’t Disappear Off the Face of the Planet

Wow Kel, do you think you could update your poor readers more often than once every four months? Um, maybe, but honestly, I really don’t know, so sorry but not sorry enough to change my habits and patterns!

Well then, what has been happening in my life since I last updated y’all? First off, I’m down to dilating once per day and life is SO much more enjoyable! Well, it is more enjoyable for the less dilating, but it is also much better now that I am not nearly as tender in my crotch. And that is making everything vastly better. I did have some concerns about potentially having undissolved stitches. However, I visited my doctor and his PA helped me immensely by giving me a few shots in the affected areas.

What has been happening since then? Um, loving living! That is the main thing I have been up to. Every day things seem to get better and better physically and then they are improving mentally and then that in turn is seemingly making everything else better as well! My last few therapy appointments have been a review of just how fantastic my life is now. I’ve spoken to my therapist a few times now about possibly changing my appointments to every two weeks instead of every week. And that is vastly better than how I was doing five or six months ago, back then I was doing therapy twice a week. So um, yeah, I’m doing better.

What else have I been up to? My wife and I are trying to revive my podcast! I was doing TransCisTer Radio with my good friend Dana, but alas Dana had massive life issues that popped up. Oh and then we had COVID come through and basically destroy all social relationships outside of the house. Which resulted in our podcast being on the brink of death. Lucky for me, I am a persistent human being and I didn’t want that media outlet of mine to disappear entirely so I discussed it with my wife and she agreed to be my partner! Woo-Hoo!!! So far we have completed five episodes, though we have not posted any of them yet. My goal is to get a total of eight episodes before we begin publishing any of them. I am currently editing episode six and expect to have the next couple of them done within a few weeks. Exciting!

The other thing I am doing is planning my second wedding! Well maybe it is my third wedding. But maybe it is actually just my first real wedding. The first time we got married it was about 25 years ago and I was literally a different person. It was a small ceremony and a super tiny reception. We didn’t have much money available to us and do everything was small and easy, like we did our reception at a group campground. I think we did everything for maybe $1000. So it was small. The second time we got married it was a private ceremony for just the two of us. This was back about 15 years ago and I was discovering who I am but I was deep in the closet with everyone except for my wife. This time though we get to live it up and we are going big, like going to Maui big! Woo-Hoo for us! We are really excited to be able to do this a third time and are super excited! My advice to anyone else considering is to not get married in Maui, it is expensive! But it is sure to be beautiful for sure.

Okie dokie peeps……….. I think that is about it!

Did I cover everything? I’m doing better and getting on with living. That’s the basics and I’m sticking with it!

Love you!