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Spousal Acceptance

April 25, 2015

There are often a vast number of factors involved in how one’s spouse will react to a reveal of being transgender.  And I cannot possibly be an expert on all possible spousal responses to such a personal and delicate manner.  All I do know is how things have gone with my spouse.  I have lived this life and am quite aware of what it has taken to get to where I am. And to get to where I am has…

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Outfit for 3-3-2015 – New Purse!!

March 3, 2015

Top – Max Studio Jeans – Guess Shoes – Saucony Purse – Coach This past weekend I decided that I HAD to have some retail therapy.  I don’t know if you have noticed it or not but I have been attempting to curtail my clothes buying obsession.  I just kind of figured that maybe I should stop purchasing for a bit and try and work with what I have.  It has been rather enjoyable actually.  I have been pleased with…

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Outfit for 1/20/2015 – Girls Night Out

January 20, 2015

Top – Ann Taylor Jeans – 7 for All Mankind Boots – Nine West Belt – Mossimo This past Sunday night Jules and I were in Monterey for a work conference and at the same time Jennifer, (Jennifer at home, from crossdressers.com) and her wife were also in Monterey.  I think Jennifer planned it that way as she and I have been trying to figure out some way to get the four of us together ever since our first meeting…

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I Saw A He-She The Other Day

December 18, 2014

OMG, he did not just say that directly to me, did he? My other coworker asked for clarification and the first guy repeated “I saw a he-she the other day.  You know a guy that was dressed as a girl.” I sat there stunned.  Was he really relaying this story?  Was he really relaying this story to me?  Was he fishing for information about me?  Clearly he discovered something about me and was wanting to out myself. He then began…

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Conflicting Desires

December 15, 2014

Pheasant This was a really full weekend.  It started off on Friday after work with a staff Christmas party.  Normally these events are rather dull and boring but this one was a riot.  My boss was pouring shots and having people pass them out.  Very funny stuff.  And no, I was not dressed pretty, but it was still fun.  Oh, but yeah my fingernails were painted in a holiday theme – Red with two accent nails with gold sparkles on…

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Outfit for 10-21-14 – $150 Jeans!!

October 21, 2014

Top – White House Black Market Jeans – 7 For All Mankind Shoes – New York Transit My good friend, Vivian mentioned to me one time that I had to try a pair of 7 For All Mankind jeans as she thought they would be perfect for me.  Vivian has a very nice shape to herself and informed me that she couldn’t fit it the 7 For All Mankind jeans, and that is what made her think they would be…

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Coming Out Summer – Tale #3 – The Oddest One Yet

October 14, 2014

Each summer one of Jules’ friends comes and visits for a day or two.  This is someone who Jules used to work with about 15-20 years ago.  We have both worked with many people over the years in our careers but only a couple have made the switch from work associate to actual friend.  Well L is one of the two. Which is rather odd as she is do unlike either Jules or I.  Well now that I say that,…

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