Dress – White House Black Market – Similar Sweater – 89th & Madison – Similar Shoes – Naturalizer:Believe Belt – Target – Similar Recently I had the opportunity to do some shopping at my favorite outlet mall in Livermore CA. I love that place, and they expanded it!! Crazy! I did not have much time to dawdle about though and so it was a fast shopping event. Basically I went into a few of my favorite stores and quickly assessed…
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How Happy – How Sad
May 3, 2016The very first time Jules and I took our picture with me dressed as a woman was about 10 years ago. That particular day she and I decided to have a private wedding ceremony where we unofficially remarried each other while I was dressed as a woman. That photo is the one pictured above. And I officially do NOT like that photo. I love what happened on that day, but wow, do I dislike the photos. None of those photos…
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Gender Me, Gender you, Gender Everyone, Everywhere
January 5, 2016“How human of you.” “That was such a human thing to do.” “You are such a human.” But that is not the way that people actually talk is it? People don’t say those types of statements. People say things like: “How male of you.” “That was such a male thing to do.” “You are such a male.” Well at least they like to say things like that to me. I don’t even know if they are aware of it. I…
I often read about how so many transgender folks fear the reaction from others when letting people in on their “little secret.” Now I am not about to say that the world is filled with nothing but sugar and spice and everything nice, (just like little girls are!) but for me, the world is not what I at one time imagined it was. Really I honestly felt as though my fellow human beings were something to be afraid of. Very…
Top – Wrapper – Similar Jeans – Seven For All Mankind: Slim Cigarette Shoes – Naturalizer: Believe Belt – Mossimo – Similar First off, I hope you all had a wondrous Thanksgiving, if you actually celebrate that day! Jules and I had a good day. We stayed home and cooked all day long! It is kind of crazy because we rarely have anyone over, but we always cook the entire meal just for the two of us. So generally we…
Since I have begun coming out to people I have observed an interesting phenomena occurring with some of them. This thing that I have observed does not take away from what I consider to be super nice responses from everyone I have ever told and I have really been touched by all of them. What I have seen is a protectiveness from them towards me. Which is also super sweet that they would care about me. But I think their…
When I first started wanting to go out while dressed as a woman, Jules and I were both pretty afraid of something bad happening to me. I had spent many, many, many! years hiding who I am and what I liked to do. For about 10-15 years the only person that knew about my gender variances was my wife. We were both terrified of anyone finding out. Eventually I shoved myself out the front door and somehow managed to start…
