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A Best Friend

June 30, 2016

I could have sworn that I had written about one of my tales of coming out to a friend, but I sure cannot find it recorded anywhere here on my blog!  Woe is me!  If I ever did retell this event and am simply unable to locate it here, and am forcing you wondrous readers to sit through it again, I am SO sorry! I think it was about a year ago, or so……….. an old friend (lets call her…

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On Love – Response to Comment

June 16, 2016

Wow, I have been avoiding responding well to this comment, and I am so sorry!  I think that I have been avoiding it because I don’t think I will have good answers.  Ahh… my own insecurities bounding to the forefront again, huh?  It’s just that what is written in this readers comment is so important and I wish I had some sort of magic that could help.  Okay….. here we go!! I’ve posted here before, and asked a question or…

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How Happy – How Sad

May 3, 2016

The very first time Jules and I took our picture with me dressed as a woman was about 10 years ago.  That particular day she and I decided to have a private wedding ceremony where we unofficially remarried each other while I was dressed as a woman.  That photo is the one pictured above.  And I officially do NOT like that photo.  I love what happened on that day, but wow, do I dislike the photos.  None of those photos…

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Thanks for the Thought

August 17, 2015

Since I have begun coming out to people I have observed an interesting phenomena occurring with some of them.  This thing that I have observed does not take away from what I consider to be super  nice responses from everyone I have ever told and I have really been touched by all of them.  What I have seen is a protectiveness from them towards me.  Which is also super sweet that they would care about me.  But I think their…

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When Does It Pass Gender Non-Conforming?

June 15, 2015

The heat has hit here in California and I am currently staring at a thermometer reading of 105!  For the past few summers it has occurred to me that I absolutely hate guy shorts!  I was explaining my issues with male shorts to my sister and she came up with the term of “shants.”  I was calling them half pants, but shants has a much nicer ring to it!  Thanks sis! I think it may have been just a year…

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Gender Non-Conforming – Purse

June 7, 2015

I love this little Coach purse.  I don’t know if I have shown it before on this blog or not.  I like it because it is small but large enough to fit everything that I need.  It also has a nice long strap and I love wearing it with it over my head and across my body.  It is actually my most handy purse. One of the things I really enjoy doing with it is using it while dressed as…

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Tale of Re-Coming Out! – To My Sister

May 22, 2015

As of right now I have yet to even see the Bruce Jenner 20/20 interview or his other stuff on E, but I am thanking him anyways!  Why you ask?  The other day I received a text from my sister who told me that she watched the interview and she HAD to talk with me.  It is not unusual for me to receive a text from her or for she and I to speak with each other; we have a…

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