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Reader Questions – Facing Fear

March 23, 2021

I got a super nice letter the other day. Unlike most of my blogging I actually respond to my emails in a fairly timely manner, lol! I thought y’all might be interested so here you go……  You are so successful, confident and beautiful, I hope you have a moment to straighten me out.  Im _____ 26 male. I  am so naturally feminine,  my interests,  my mannerisms and in many ways my physical appearance.  I  literally ache inside with the desire…

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Quick Check-In

March 6, 2021

Hi dear readers! I am such a bad blogger. But Constant Readers will know that already right? Well you should, lol. I thought I’d try and post something quick, and so here that lovely bit of magic is. Actually I am sitting in my hot-tub about to get ready to leave for electro. I thought of this long lost blog and couldn’t recall when I had last done a post. Wow, January huh Kel? Damn! Well really what’s up is…

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THE Surgery

January 3, 2021

In January, almost a year ago, I met with Dr. Satterwhite in SF. Don’t know who he is? Well he is going to perform my gender surgery. Gender surgery? Yes. It has gone by a variety of acronyms, none of which are without issue. Suffice it to say this is THE surgery. Yup, that one. THE one, lol. Still confused, well then maybe that’s for the best and we will leave it at that. The date that I chose for…

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Family Love

December 11, 2020

On Thanksgiving Jodie spoke with her dad on the phone. He said to her “so, your spouse is translucent?” Knowing that her dad has Parkinson’s and quite a bit of resulting dementia, Jodie only recently began discussing my transition with him. She said “well yes dad, my wife is transgender.” He said, “well the only photo I have of you two is from before, and it’s really hard to explain it well to my friends.” She says “So dad, would…

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Um, Thanks?

November 22, 2020

The other day I received the following email: Followed you for a very long time and proud of your accomplishments, but thinking of taking you off the list of places I go often. I know you’re busy-you lead a full life for sure-and it shows. Rare new bits and pieces, and not updated to often like it once was. So,time to move on. Thanks for the ride. My response at first was that I cried. After a bit I got…

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Happy Halloween!

November 1, 2020

Happy Halloween. Um, love my costume! So happy I teach and have an excuse to do this. I wasn’t sure about this year with all of us online. However I have been stressing that it is important to take care of our mental health, so I went for it. Super happy I did, it’s been a hell of a couple of weeks. Not with my classes, my students are fabu! But some other things have really challenged me. Now where…

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Isn’t This A Style Blog?

September 7, 2020

Tank – White House Black Market – @WHBM, Similar @ Amazon Skirt – ?????? – Similar @ Amazon @ Ann TaylorShoes – Born O Concept – Schirra in Navy @ Amazon Similar @ Famous FootwearBelt – WHBM – Similar @ Amazon @Black Butterfly While it may not seem like it, from my lack of personal style photos, I am still pushing myself to dress my best on almost a daily basis. On occasion I do dress just purely for comfort,…

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