Frequently when I attempt to discuss my gender with others, they will say, ‘oh, well you are gender fluid.’ As of late, it has been occurring so much, that when I hear it, I throw up a little in my mouth. Okay, well that just may be a bit of an exaggeration, but seriously, I am a bit sick of people telling me that I am gender fluid. Do you know what gender fluid means people? Let’s take a…
A gorgeous iris from my yard! A few internet links that I have found interesting as of late: Diamond rain on various planets!! – OMG, are you serious? When are we going to get our little human butts off to these places so that we can scoop up rockets full of diamonds? Here is an easy way to get to the moon! Just fold some paper!! Hahahahaha Seriously?? How can these facts be true??? So….. I can’t believe I am…
Dress – Calvin Klein Sweater – 89th & Madison Shoes – Nine West While shopping at a Dress Barn I picked this dress off of the clearance rack. I searched and searched for other possible sizes, but this was the only one. I was either going to fit this one, or I would never own this dress. Jules and I visited the dressing room together and began trying on dresses. It took me several tries to actually get this dress…
So What Do These Shoes Mean?
July 26, 2013Shoes – Saucony Once upon a time, somewhere in my research I found that it is generally considered to be true that you are a transvestite if you refuse to wear pants and a transexual if you do. So what does it mean about me if I choose to wear these shoes? They certainly are not 3 to 5 inch heels. Well actually they are not heels at all, they are sneakers. In fact when I wore these shoes, I…
Camping & What Am I?
June 11, 2013Jules and I recently went camping and while we were out relaxing I was pondering what exactly am I. I don’t really need to label myself. I know what I am, I am me. And me likes to wear male clothes sometimes and female clothes sometimes and sometimes I like to wear both. I also like to dress up and look like a man and sometimes I like to dress up and look like a woman. The vast majority of…
Fetish? I Think it May be a Bit More Complex
September 19, 2012“People of all sexes have the right to explore femininity, masculinity—and the infinite variations between—without criticism or ridicule.” — Leslie Feinberg Is that too much to ask? Before I ever started blogging, I never really bothered with reading blogs about trans anything. I read plenty of fashion blogs. And maybe now I wish I had stayed an ignorant fool. As I have stated elsewhere in my blog, I personally have been the recipient of rude behavior while dressed as a…
How to Remove Gel Nails or Reverse Gender Dysphoria
August 6, 2012Part A:I love the nail job that you can see pictured in the photo above. I got it about a week ago at a local salon while dressed as a guy. I got a gel nail polish put on and I asked if they could do a french tip in gels and they said yes!! Woo-Hoo!! It takes about an hour for the gel polish to be repeatedly layered and cured, with a UV lamp, which gets quite hot btw. If…