While on the way to work today I was pondering who is left in my circle of people that I have not had the official talk with. For quite some time now I have been making the assumption that everybody in my life knows that I am transgender. But I have not had the official talk with every single person. There were just a few people hanging around that I did not think it to be important to have the…
Play The Hand You Have Been Dealt?
November 29, 2017It’s a fascinating thing, sitting back and attempting to observe yourself. I once had a boss tell me that I had the most accurate self reflections of anyone he had ever met. That really pleased me. For if there is one thing that I have constantly striven to do, it has been to have an accurate picture of who I am. Thinking of that line now, I have to laugh. For if I was actually accurate in my self reflections,…
My therapist called it numb on her Facebook post, and it really made me think, yeah that is what I am these days towards mass murder, numb. It is so super sad. I haven’t really known how numb I have become to these horrid crimes until this past visit to Las Vegas. I know I have written quite a bit about my two to three day trip to Las Vegas. Apparently it was a moving event for me. Somethings I…
It’s Not Estrogen, It’s Me on Estrogen
October 24, 2017It not estrogen, it’s me on estrogen, that’s what I would have said, if I could have one of those brains that actually thinks in real time. For me though my thoughts often come hours, day, months, years, or even decades after the fact. Things are constantly replayed within my mind, over and over, on endless loops, with me trying out different responses to see how they fit and pondering their implications. Lately it seems as though more often than…
Dress – White House Black Market – Similar Shoes – Naturalizer – Similar Why isn’t that a thing? I mean, a LBD – little black dress, is totally a thing. Everybody knows about and talks about a little black dress, but I don’t think I have ever heard the phrase, LWD – little white dress. I personally think it should totally be a thing. I mean, how cute is this dress? Totes adorbs! I really like it and think that…
Penises to the Left and Vaginas to the Right
October 11, 2017We were standing in the men’s locker room when I began telling Edward that I get it, as a society, we want to separate the penises from the vaginas. That is the only appropriate thing to do when penises want so desperately to get into vaginas. At least that is the logic as it was explained to me when I was just a young kid – in order to keep the penises out of the vaginas, we need to have…
My Outfit – Black and White Polka Dots – My Favorite!
September 26, 2017Dress – Laura – Similar Leggings – White House Black Market – Similar Booties – Madden Girl – Similar Belt – White House Black Market – Similar This past summer Jules and I were on our Alaska cruise and we pulled into port at Victoria, British Columbia. We were really unsure what to do as it was a much larger city than we had visited on this trip and we are not super big on large cities. We chose to…