One of the easiest things in this process of legally changing my name and my gender was getting this driver’s license. You may recall that I was quite nervous about the process. In the end, it was super easy and I was in and out of the DMV in about 20 minutes. Yes I did have an appointment, and I highly recommend making one if you are ever in a need to visit that lovely place. The super surprising thing…
Dress – White House Black Market – Similar @ WHBM, @ Amazon Leggings – WHBM – @ WHBM, Similar @ Amazon Booties – Unisa – Havana @ DSW, Similar @ Amazon Scarf – WHBM – @ WHBM, Similar @ Amazon I had waited far too long. My court date to legally change my name and my gender was on June 28th. My plan, which was wonderful, was to get my birth certificate and then get my new license. Doing it in that…
There is nothing special about this outfit. In fact when I wore it I actually had some deodorant spots on it that I hadn’t even noticed before leaving the house. But I have been more than a bit busy lately, as you may have heard. I didn’t even really want to leave the house, but being as we were just about out of toilet paper, it was a necessity. I showered after my brief bit of yard work in the…
Recently I was questioned by a dear friend as to why it appears as though I have discontinued my blogging. My response – mental fortitude. Shall we take a moment and look at the definition of that phrase? mental and emotional strength in facing difficulty, adversity, danger, or temptation courageously: Never once did her fortitude waver during that long illness. So, um, yeah, that is what has been going on with me. I like the part of that definition that adds the word…
I really had no idea. If I would have known, I would have gone this route long ago. How different life would be is unimaginable. It’s sad, actually. I know, I shouldn’t feel bad for things that have happened, for it was only those things that brought me to the path I’m on. Who knows what would have been now, if that had not ever been then. At least it happened eventually. Oh, I’m sorry, I’m waxing on dramatically without…
Standing next to my truck I realized what had occurred, I just locked my keys inside. It was truly an unreal moment and I stood there for a bit absolutely dumbstruck. This couldn’t really be happening could it? Yes, yes it could, and it was. I tried pushing some random numbers into my key-less entry system as I never actually bothered to memorize the actual combination. I knew it was a five digit code, but that was about it. Proving…
It was with a weird disconnected calm that I heard my wife describe the horror I had been dreading since 2010. A student came up to her and described how all of the students were talking about that I had been discovered online. They apparently found my Facebook page which led them here to this little ol blog of mine. At one point in my life this would have been awesomely devastating for the two of us, at least mentally. …
