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Coming Clean to A Coworker!

March 26, 2015

For about 7 months now, I have been mentoring a new worker at my job, and she is fabulously talented at what we do.  I wish I was as good as she is when I started.  Her passion and drive is truly admirable. Many of you are aware that I have been going to work for many years now with my nails painted all of the time.  No, I don’t just go for clear, or muted tones, I go for…

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How to Get Things Done – My Personal Response to Stress

March 8, 2015

Yesterday I received the following email: Hi- I am sure you are busy working a sweat in your workshop. IF you get a chance this weekend, can you blog about advice on getting things done in life? Especially getting things done despite every muscle in your body and every thought telling you to stay in bed otherwise. Thanks, Your new blog fan Well first let me say, thank you so much for reading my blog!  Oh and thank you so…

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Outfit for 2-6-15 – Red & Purple

February 6, 2015

Coat – GuessWhite Sweater – White House Black MarketPurple Tank – White House Black MarketSkirt – ????? (I don’t have that info with me right now!)Shoes – Born O Concept In reviewing this outfit for this post, I really think the shoes are not the right pair for this outfit.  I think the shoes are far too casual.  Lately I have been having a tough time mentally with my shoes.  I never feel as though I have just the right…

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Outfit for 1-27-15 – Casual with Jeans & The Death of my Father

January 27, 2015

Jacket – Guess Top – Guess Pants – Guess Boots – Nine West On the morning that I chose to wear this outfit, I started off the day by waking up in a run down hotel in Las Vegas.  I wasn’t even sure that I was going to dress up that day, as I really didn’t know what I was going to do. So seriously, am I going to tell this story, here and now?  Here after starting off a…

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Outfit for 12/30/14 – A Night In Vegas

December 30, 2014

Purple Top – White House Black Market Black Tank – Patty Boutique Jeans – 7 For All Mankind Boots – Nine West I really like this purple top and have been attempting to fit it into an outfit for several months now.  I find it to be funny with how that goes with certain clothes; I will try them on, buy them, and then hang them in the closet until I figure out how and when to where them. When…

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I Saw A He-She The Other Day

December 18, 2014

OMG, he did not just say that directly to me, did he? My other coworker asked for clarification and the first guy repeated “I saw a he-she the other day.  You know a guy that was dressed as a girl.” I sat there stunned.  Was he really relaying this story?  Was he really relaying this story to me?  Was he fishing for information about me?  Clearly he discovered something about me and was wanting to out myself. He then began…

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Conflicting Desires

December 15, 2014

Pheasant This was a really full weekend.  It started off on Friday after work with a staff Christmas party.  Normally these events are rather dull and boring but this one was a riot.  My boss was pouring shots and having people pass them out.  Very funny stuff.  And no, I was not dressed pretty, but it was still fun.  Oh, but yeah my fingernails were painted in a holiday theme – Red with two accent nails with gold sparkles on…

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