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A Human Narrative

April 6, 2018

What do you picture when you hear the phrase “gang member?”  How about the phrase “founding member of a gang?”  How about hearing someone explain to you, in person, standing not five feet away, that they have possibly taken the lives of human beings in the commission of crimes?  And yes it was left open as to the exact number.  I got the feeling that possibly not even he knew the exact count.  So?  How about it?  Thoughts on who…

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My Outfit – I May Have Been Overdressed

August 23, 2017

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Shorts – Guess – Similar Belt – ??? – Similar Shoes – Born O Concept – Similar This was the outfit that I decided to wear to my first group therapy session.  It occurred about 3 weeks ago.  I liked what I decided to wear, and yes, there are in fact shorts under there, but I do think that I was rather overdressed for the occasion.  It was quite funny as it…

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What’s Up?

June 29, 2017

Goodness me, how time flies!  I know, I frequently lament my super busy life.  Woe is me, right?  Ah well.  I think that it is because I feel bad for not updating my blog more frequently.  I know that there are at least a few people out there who enjoy my blog and gain something from reading it.  So for you, constant reader, I am sorry that I am so lax in updating things.  Lets see if I can at…

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Nice Hat

March 31, 2017

Hat – Slouchy Beanie  The second compliment that I received today was “nice hat.”  This was said to me by the gentleman that was standing behind me in line as I waited to make my next appointment with the dermatologist.  As soon as I finished up, I turned around, smiled at the man behind me, and he complimented my hat.  I really like this hat as well and have received more than one compliment on it.   About a half…

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Hunting with Boobs

December 27, 2016

About a week ago I tried something that I have never done, I wore a bra and a set of the small boobs out while hunting.  And what was the result?  I had the best shoot average I think I have ever had.  I was super amazed.  I mean I have gone out shooting before while wearing boobs.  You may or may not have seen the post that the above picture was from.  But going out hunting to the duck…

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Sometimes Being Out Is a Responsibility I Don’t Want

September 19, 2016

Is it easy to be out or in the closet?  I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder.  I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot.  You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself.  Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…

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Mr. Unhappy

September 16, 2016

Do you know what a cystoscopy is?  Well I didn’t until recently.  For your sake, I really hope you don’t ever have to find out what it is.  Just as a fair warning, this post might be a bit more graphic in nature than some of my other posts. So…. fair warning…… it may get a bit uncomfortable for some…… if you want to stop reading, now may the time!!!!  Last chance… okay, here we go. I have been having…

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