“How human of you.” “That was such a human thing to do.” “You are such a human.” But that is not the way that people actually talk is it? People don’t say those types of statements. People say things like: “How male of you.” “That was such a male thing to do.” “You are such a male.” Well at least they like to say things like that to me. I don’t even know if they are aware of it. I…
No seriously, I really think that it did. I know, I have discussed a variety of different theories before as to why I am a cross dresser, but really more as of a joke than anything else. Why do I have gender variances? I believe sincerely that I was born this way. I do not think that anything that I have experienced in this world has made me into someone who has gender variances. I do not have a fully…
For many, many years Jules told me that she was worried because I appeared to be anorexic to her. Why? Well because no matter how much weight I have lost I have never been satisfied and have always told her that maybe I would be happier if I lost a bit more. This has worried her and minding her concerns I have always tempered my weight loss desires. But it has always made me ponder, what exactly is wrong with…
It has often been said that what the difference is between a cross dresser and a transsexual, is about two years. Ba-dum-ch!!! What a fabulous joke huh? Well not so much for the spouse of a cross dresser who is wondering where this newly discovered obsession is going to go. This often brings up this idea that there is this slide from occasional pantie wearing that progresses to dressing up fully, and then going out in public, and eventually ending…
As of right now I have yet to even see the Bruce Jenner 20/20 interview or his other stuff on E, but I am thanking him anyways! Why you ask? The other day I received a text from my sister who told me that she watched the interview and she HAD to talk with me. It is not unusual for me to receive a text from her or for she and I to speak with each other; we have a…
There are often a vast number of factors involved in how one’s spouse will react to a reveal of being transgender. And I cannot possibly be an expert on all possible spousal responses to such a personal and delicate manner. All I do know is how things have gone with my spouse. I have lived this life and am quite aware of what it has taken to get to where I am. And to get to where I am has…
I had an interesting discussion with my boss today. I found myself sitting in my bosses office with my head supervisor and 2nd in charge supervisor, and I slightly dissociated from myself and heard myself say: “Well I do consider myself to be transgender and another employee has gone to my intern and informed them that she does not “approve” of my “lifestyle” and that it is highly inappropriate to come to my workplace with my fingernails painted. I am…
