Recently (who am I kidding, it was months ago!) a reader of this blog, Stana, a most awesome blogger herself, asked for me to expand on this section of one of my posts: Hormones – This one was life changing for me. It really opened my eyes to my reality. I laugh at who I thought I was prior to last July and changing my hormones to the right ones. Changing my hormones did many things for me. Physically they…
Is it easy to be out or in the closet? I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder. I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot. You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself. Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…
Frequently when I attempt to discuss my gender with others, they will say, ‘oh, well you are gender fluid.’ As of late, it has been occurring so much, that when I hear it, I throw up a little in my mouth. Okay, well that just may be a bit of an exaggeration, but seriously, I am a bit sick of people telling me that I am gender fluid. Do you know what gender fluid means people? Let’s take a…
It has often been said that what the difference is between a cross dresser and a transsexual, is about two years. Ba-dum-ch!!! What a fabulous joke huh? Well not so much for the spouse of a cross dresser who is wondering where this newly discovered obsession is going to go. This often brings up this idea that there is this slide from occasional pantie wearing that progresses to dressing up fully, and then going out in public, and eventually ending…
Shoes – Saucony Once upon a time, somewhere in my research I found that it is generally considered to be true that you are a transvestite if you refuse to wear pants and a transexual if you do. So what does it mean about me if I choose to wear these shoes? They certainly are not 3 to 5 inch heels. Well actually they are not heels at all, they are sneakers. In fact when I wore these shoes, I…
Jules and I recently went camping and while we were out relaxing I was pondering what exactly am I. I don’t really need to label myself. I know what I am, I am me. And me likes to wear male clothes sometimes and female clothes sometimes and sometimes I like to wear both. I also like to dress up and look like a man and sometimes I like to dress up and look like a woman. The vast majority of…
“People of all sexes have the right to explore femininity, masculinity—and the infinite variations between—without criticism or ridicule.” — Leslie Feinberg Is that too much to ask? Before I ever started blogging, I never really bothered with reading blogs about trans anything. I read plenty of fashion blogs. And maybe now I wish I had stayed an ignorant fool. As I have stated elsewhere in my blog, I personally have been the recipient of rude behavior while dressed as a…
