June of 2018 I went to my first electro appointment. They started on my face. It took over 20 hours to fully clear my entire face 1 time. Yesterday they cleared my face in 2 hours. It will probably take an additional 6 months of full clearings and then it will be gone for the entire rest of my life! Now we are slowly working our way down my body. 6 hours was spent on my upper bikini line.…
Okay so the photos are horrible. Apparently my wife and I specialize in blurry photos! Ha! However, the day was not horrible. I spent the morning teaching my middle schoolers and then we jetted up to UC Merced. I gave my TG presentation detailing my decision to transition and afterwards we both fielded questions from the students. The professor there is amazing and he sent me a link to his student responses to our discussion. Here are a few of…
Being a Transgender Teacher
October 15, 2019People often ask me what it is like to be a transgender middle school math teacher, this is what it is like. Not enough of an explanation? Okay….. I’ll give you a bit more info on the card above. This was a card that some of my students gave me about two weeks ago, on my birthday. The card was special in and of itself, but it is even more special when one understands the back story. So, the back…
Friends, Mis-Gendering, and Warm Fuzzies
September 4, 2019My friend has an amazing filter on her camera, it removed about 20 years!! I had a fascinating set of interactions with some friends recently. One of them was with three different teachers I worked with for a few years, the second one was with a college professor who I work with in helping to teach teachers, and the third was one of my employers. While they will certainly recognize themselves in this post, I will change their names. My…
In the Closet and In a Wedding??
August 12, 2019You may remember that recently my friend Dana and I began a podcast. We have been having lots of fun recording it, and sharing out bit of weirdness with the world. We recently received a great question from a listener. I was emailing her back today and thought, hey, maybe I should share this with a larger community to try and get more opinions. So I’d encourage you to reach out and give me your thoughts. Hello! My…
Well, no, not actually. Really the writing is on the label on the lid. A year and half ago or so I realized that I was going to legally transition and most likely end up fully transitioning. It was sometime around then that I realized it was time to start working on my handwriting again. It’s interesting to see what transgender people end up not liking about themselves. For many of us it is obviously body parts that we don’t…
Apparently that is the question. Confused? Possibly. Well, the other day on Insta I received the following message: When you pose in a car, may I ask a favor? Please shed the sunglasses for the time to take a selfie. As a lesbian, I want to see your whole face. I went back through my Insta feed and noticed that there are probably about 35 or so pictures with me with sunglasses on and about the same with them off. …