Unfortunately due to the unpopularity and controversy surrounding my gender variances I do not feel comfortable revealing what I am actually employed in doing, which sucks when you think about it! Anywho…. I work with a large and varied clientele and there are also many different levels of workers at my job. I am somewhat higher up in the ranks due primarily to my education level and the amount of experience I have in my field. I also am a…
Undershirt – Next Level Jeans – Levi – Denizen Shoes – Converse – Similar Since I am on a comfort kick lately I thought I would share with you a picture of what I am wearing at this very moment and this is, to me, ultimate comfort! I know, I know, it is a totally horribly crappy photo. But I decided to take it while I actually am at work, and the only viable location to do so was in…
What does it mean to be comfortable? I get it when you are talking about things like shoes, or clothes, or temperatures and the like, but when it comes to my gender it becomes much more difficult for me to put into words well. I write little bits and blurbs and then quickly erase them as they don’t seem to capture the essence of what I am feeling. I have tried talking with cisgender folks about it and they really…
Acceptance makeup Out and About passing society
You Look Much Cuter in Your Other Picture (Actually Finished this Time!)
October 21, 2015Goodness, did she just say what I think she said? I pondered that question as I walked away from the Shisheido counter in Macy’s. It had been a strange dichotomy of people’s opinions and I just wasn’t that sure I had heard her correctly. Earlier, Jules and I had walked up to the Clinique counter to get some new eye makeup remover. It was gift time at Clinique and thus of course there was quite a line backed up. I…
For many, many years Jules told me that she was worried because I appeared to be anorexic to her. Why? Well because no matter how much weight I have lost I have never been satisfied and have always told her that maybe I would be happier if I lost a bit more. This has worried her and minding her concerns I have always tempered my weight loss desires. But it has always made me ponder, what exactly is wrong with…
It is so strange existing outside of the gender binary and yet it is the only thing I have ever known. I frequently wonder what life must be like for those that exist within that system. Well, I can only assume that life itself is probably essentially the same exact life that I live, only I don’t think that most people wonder if they are actually male or female. Most of my life I present as a male, and I…
Tunic – WHBM – Similar Belt – Mossimo – Similar Tights – Target – Similar Shoes – Fitzwell – Similar On many occasions readers have suggested that I try a pair of pantyhose while wearing a certain outfit or two and while I have honestly considered the suggestion, I have yet to even try it. But the white tights I am wearing in this outfit might be considered to be a close second? Maybe? I don’t know! But I do…
