Jules and I dressed and ready to go attend our first Sparkle event. If you don’t know, Sparkle is a TG ball put on by the River City Gems of Sacramento. I was a little bit unsure of how the evening was going to go. Generally speaking, while I have nothing against TG events, I do not attend them. I am more of an everyday transgender person. Meaning, I tend to get dressed up and go to everyday places, like…
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Sometimes Being Out Is a Responsibility I Don’t Want
September 19, 2016Is it easy to be out or in the closet? I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder. I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot. You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself. Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…
Do you know what a cystoscopy is? Well I didn’t until recently. For your sake, I really hope you don’t ever have to find out what it is. Just as a fair warning, this post might be a bit more graphic in nature than some of my other posts. So…. fair warning…… it may get a bit uncomfortable for some…… if you want to stop reading, now may the time!!!! Last chance… okay, here we go. I have been having…
Top – White House Black Market – Similar Skirt – Iris Los Angeles – Similar Belt – White House Black Market – Similar Shoes – Guess – Similar Bracelets – My Own – Etsy I purchased this top quite some time ago. So long ago that I actually do not remember when I purchased it. That means it was awhile ago. I really liked it when I purchased it, but for some reason it has hung in my closet waiting…
Tank – White House Black Market Skirt – White House Black Market – Similar Shoes – Kelly & Katie Bracelets – My Own – My Etsy Store First off, with this outfit, I absolutely adore this skirt. It is pleated all the way around and it swishes as I walk, which I just adore! It has such wonderful movement to it that I will often grab it and swish it around and around. It is such fun!! Another bit of…
Sometimes I feel as though I am in public relations simply by stepping outside of my door. Well, maybe even when I am not stepping outside my door; as in my previous post on Register.com. It’s similar to a thought I heard Dennis Prager discussing once. While I am not a lock-step believer in everything that he says, this one time he said something along the lines of – ‘if you are a member of a minority group then you…
Wow, I have been avoiding responding well to this comment, and I am so sorry! I think that I have been avoiding it because I don’t think I will have good answers. Ahh… my own insecurities bounding to the forefront again, huh? It’s just that what is written in this readers comment is so important and I wish I had some sort of magic that could help. Okay….. here we go!! I’ve posted here before, and asked a question or…
