Disclaimer – I am about to discuss some issue that some may find inappropriate, and I certainly see as pretty personal. But I have received some questions, so I thought maybe you might want some answers! A couple of people have expressed concern that I appear more concerned about transition related medication than I do the health of my prostate. Can I take a moment to clear up that misconception? Here is the full story, okay? For years I have…
An Update on Counseling
June 5, 2017Well well well. It was what a couple of weeks ago when I explained why I was seeking out counseling for my gender variance? I think, hmm…. let’s check. Yup here it is. It took a bit of time but I got setup with someone who I thought was good. But things took a turn that I did not want it to. She wanted to work on CBT (look it up) for some inner critical voices. I let her know…
Some of you may know that I am currently on a clothes shopping diet. This idea was born of wanting to offer my wife some sort of solidarity with her choice to be on a food diet. The idea, that I came up with, is that I would refrain from clothes shopping while she is food dieting. For the most part things are going quite well. I am finding lots of good clothes combinations that I had not considered before.…
I had an interesting day yesterday that I thought I would share a bit about before I presented most of my kitten photos. Let’s start with, do you know that I have never seen a counselor regarding my gender issues? Yup, never have. Never felt a need to actually. But never mind that now right? Anywho….. I am in kind of an interesting situation in that I am wanting to begin to speak to someone but the nearest person to…
Does a Training Bra Provide Any Actual Training?
April 27, 2017Knowing what size you are can be a super important thing for anyone who is transgender. I think this is primarily caused by doing much of their clothes shopping remotely. Transgender people often rely on catalogs and online purchases. Thus, you need to know your size before you order anything. You have to put it into the darn forms before they will send you anything. Plus, there’s added pressure for TG individuals as buying anything brings with it a certain…
Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Jeans – Levi:Denizens Sweater – 69th & Madison – Similar Shoes – Born-O-Concept – Similar This was an outfit that I wore about a week or two ago. Jules and I decided to go get our nails done, which we have not been doing lately. We so love getting our nails done by somebody else, but we have been attempting to save a bit of money and nails are a bit of…
Saucony Cohesion 6 – Similar I’ve known this for much of my life, but I am constantly amazed at how often it is exemplified. Thus yet again this morning I had to shake my head at myself. Why, you ask? Well, this morning I finally decided to wear the above shoes to work! And I was totally freaking out about it. Okay, well let’s dial it back a bit and give some explanation. I wasn’t having a panic attack or…