Undershirt – Next Level Jeans – Levi – Denizen Shoes – Converse – Similar Since I am on a comfort kick lately I thought I would share with you a picture of what I am wearing at this very moment and this is, to me, ultimate comfort! I know, I know, it is a totally horribly crappy photo. But I decided to take it while I actually am at work, and the only viable location to do so was in…
It is so strange existing outside of the gender binary and yet it is the only thing I have ever known. I frequently wonder what life must be like for those that exist within that system. Well, I can only assume that life itself is probably essentially the same exact life that I live, only I don’t think that most people wonder if they are actually male or female. Most of my life I present as a male, and I…
It has often been said that what the difference is between a cross dresser and a transsexual, is about two years. Ba-dum-ch!!! What a fabulous joke huh? Well not so much for the spouse of a cross dresser who is wondering where this newly discovered obsession is going to go. This often brings up this idea that there is this slide from occasional pantie wearing that progresses to dressing up fully, and then going out in public, and eventually ending…
When I first started wanting to go out while dressed as a woman, Jules and I were both pretty afraid of something bad happening to me. I had spent many, many, many! years hiding who I am and what I liked to do. For about 10-15 years the only person that knew about my gender variances was my wife. We were both terrified of anyone finding out. Eventually I shoved myself out the front door and somehow managed to start…
Acceptance crossdresser marriage Out and About society
My Wife & I Respond to A Reader’s Questions – Lesbian Couple?
April 13, 2015(I think it is time for an updated picture of us, huh?) Recently I received the following comment from a reader:You have very good taste in fashion! I’m the wife of a closeted (mostly fetish) crossdresser and stumbled on your blog. It’s certainly another side of things that I’m enjoying reading about.If it’s okay to ask, you look very authentic but I was wondering if this doesn’t bother your wife? I like being part of a heterosexual couple and I like…
Occasionally my wife and I will look at pictures of other cross dressers and frequently Jules has commented that the person would look so much better by standing in a different way. For a little while now I have been taking pictures of myself in different poses so I could demonstrate what my wife is talking about. Oh and I read once that women naturally pose well for pictures; uh… no. It is a learned skill, so read on…
Within the last few months this blog has had some ups and downs. A few months ago the number of visitors to my blog practically doubled overnight. I was shocked at the number of new visitors. It was interesting actually in that the number of visitors doubled but the number of comments actually went down. Blogging is weird. I like it, but it is weird. I often wonder: Who am I writing this blog for, the reader, or the writer?…
