You may remember that recently my friend Dana and I began a podcast. We have been having lots of fun recording it, and sharing out bit of weirdness with the world. We recently received a great question from a listener. I was emailing her back today and thought, hey, maybe I should share this with a larger community to try and get more opinions. So I’d encourage you to reach out and give me your thoughts. Hello! My…
An Update on Counseling
June 5, 2017Well well well. It was what a couple of weeks ago when I explained why I was seeking out counseling for my gender variance? I think, hmm…. let’s check. Yup here it is. It took a bit of time but I got setup with someone who I thought was good. But things took a turn that I did not want it to. She wanted to work on CBT (look it up) for some inner critical voices. I let her know…
Sometimes Being Out Is a Responsibility I Don’t Want
September 19, 2016Is it easy to be out or in the closet? I think this is something that many of us part timers ponder. I mean if you are facing certain transition, then the question is moot. You’re not going to transition to the other gender entirely and spend your time sitting in a closet all by yourself. Life couldn’t possibly get done that way. For those who are just an occasional cross dresser, then again, I think the question is easily…
This past weekend I went away for a retreat for one of the many jobs that I do. It was a gathering of a bunch of us that have been contracted to be a coach to others in our profession. (BTW – I SO wish I felt comfortable enough letting everyone know exactly what field I am employed in, but alas, with being transgender one needs to be cautious about how much info we spill onto the net. Bummer!!) Anywho………
How Happy – How Sad
May 3, 2016The very first time Jules and I took our picture with me dressed as a woman was about 10 years ago. That particular day she and I decided to have a private wedding ceremony where we unofficially remarried each other while I was dressed as a woman. That photo is the one pictured above. And I officially do NOT like that photo. I love what happened on that day, but wow, do I dislike the photos. None of those photos…
Gender Fluid? Gender Phooey!
April 21, 2016Frequently when I attempt to discuss my gender with others, they will say, ‘oh, well you are gender fluid.’ As of late, it has been occurring so much, that when I hear it, I throw up a little in my mouth. Okay, well that just may be a bit of an exaggeration, but seriously, I am a bit sick of people telling me that I am gender fluid. Do you know what gender fluid means people? Let’s take a…
Cutting Off My Hair Made Me A Cross Dresser!
December 3, 2015No seriously, I really think that it did. I know, I have discussed a variety of different theories before as to why I am a cross dresser, but really more as of a joke than anything else. Why do I have gender variances? I believe sincerely that I was born this way. I do not think that anything that I have experienced in this world has made me into someone who has gender variances. I do not have a fully…