The very first time Jules and I took our picture with me dressed as a woman was about 10 years ago. That particular day she and I decided to have a private wedding ceremony where we unofficially remarried each other while I was dressed as a woman. That photo is the one pictured above. And I officially do NOT like that photo. I love what happened on that day, but wow, do I dislike the photos. None of those photos…
Frequently when I attempt to discuss my gender with others, they will say, ‘oh, well you are gender fluid.’ As of late, it has been occurring so much, that when I hear it, I throw up a little in my mouth. Okay, well that just may be a bit of an exaggeration, but seriously, I am a bit sick of people telling me that I am gender fluid. Do you know what gender fluid means people? Let’s take a…
It is so strange existing outside of the gender binary and yet it is the only thing I have ever known. I frequently wonder what life must be like for those that exist within that system. Well, I can only assume that life itself is probably essentially the same exact life that I live, only I don’t think that most people wonder if they are actually male or female. Most of my life I present as a male, and I…
It has often been said that what the difference is between a cross dresser and a transsexual, is about two years. Ba-dum-ch!!! What a fabulous joke huh? Well not so much for the spouse of a cross dresser who is wondering where this newly discovered obsession is going to go. This often brings up this idea that there is this slide from occasional pantie wearing that progresses to dressing up fully, and then going out in public, and eventually ending…
It has been some time since I published my first post on my bra wearing experiment and the update to that, but I never returned to it to let you know how things panned out with it all. Being as it has been quite a bit since I wrote those posts, I thought I would give a bit of a recap of what my bra speriment has been all about. For a year or two, or possibly more, I have…
A week or two ago, I published a post about how I was going to approach an upcoming trip. Due to the wonders of blogging I actually wrote that post before my travel occurred, and it did not actually get published until about ten days after I had already left. My entire trip was from about the 13th of July to the 25th, I was home for a night and then off the next day for a 6 day work…
Vs In one of my recent posts I was contemplating my new black wig and how while wearing it I don’t really feel like it matches up well with the picture or image I have of myself. Pat, a frequent commenter on many blogs, left me the following comment awhile back: “you have been projecting blond for so long that dark hair seems like a disguise.” It is a very interesting comment but I think it is backwards. While looking…
