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Transition & The Loss of Friends

May 15, 2019

One of the most challenging questions I have had to deal with is trying to determine if I have lost friends because of my transition.  I am a member of a chat board called crossdressers.com and on that board people are very fond of saying that when you transition you need to be prepared to lose everyone and everything and thus they do not recommend transitioning unless it is a life and death situation.  That sentiment scared me off from…

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What? Hormones Were Life Changing?

January 1, 2019

Recently (who am I kidding, it was months ago!) a reader of this blog, Stana, a most awesome blogger herself, asked for me to expand on this section of one of my posts: Hormones – This one was life changing for me.  It really opened my eyes to my reality.  I laugh at who I thought I was prior to last July and changing my hormones to the right ones. Changing my hormones did many things for me.  Physically they…

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My Outfit – Off to the DMV

October 3, 2018

Dress – White House Black Market – Similar @ WHBM, @ Amazon Leggings – WHBM – @ WHBM, Similar @ Amazon Booties – Unisa – Havana @ DSW, Similar @ Amazon Scarf – WHBM – @ WHBM, Similar @ Amazon I had waited far too long.  My court date to legally change my name and my gender was on June 28th.  My plan, which was wonderful, was to get my birth certificate and then get my new license.  Doing it in that…

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My Outfit – Be the Queen

September 20, 2018

Top – WHBM – Similar @ Amazon, @ WHBM Leggings – WHBM – Similar @ Amazon, @ WHBM Shoes – Unisa – Similar @ Amazon, @ DSW  Belt – ?? – Similar @Amazon Do you know that I adore this tunic?  Well I do!  And today I felt like a queen.  Does it show on my face?  It should!  Seriously, I really like this outfit.  I had to go visit CVS after work to determine when my next refill of…

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1 Year Anniversary on Estrogen

July 3, 2018

I really had no idea.  If I would have known, I would have gone this route long ago.  How different life would be is unimaginable.  It’s sad, actually.  I know, I shouldn’t feel bad for things that have happened, for it was only those things that brought me to the path I’m on.  Who knows what would have been now, if that had not ever been then.  At least it happened eventually. Oh, I’m sorry, I’m waxing on dramatically without…

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Prostate Confusion

July 11, 2017

Well now, it has been a little bit since I came clean here about what is going on with me and my prostate, but there appears to be a lingering confusion as to what is happening with my prostate.  Several people I have spoken to have been greatly concerned that I am dealing more with obtaining hormones than dealing with my health.  Some of these people have been close friends and some have been well meaning internet friends. I have…

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My Outfit – Geometric Tunic

July 6, 2017

Tunic – White House Black Market – Similar Belt – Mossimo – Similar Shorts – Guess – Similar Sandals – Born O Concept – Similar Doesn’t it totally look as though this dress is super short?  I mean way too short for me to be wearing, unless of course I’m wanting to give somebody a free peep show?  That would be gross!  I have actually heard of some trans people doing that on purpose.  Well, at least that is how others described them, trans.…

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