It’s been 42 days since my last surgery. I decided to go in and have my coochie redone. Things were going okay but after many discussions with my therapist, and a visit or two with my surgeon, I decided is okay enough? And the answer was, no! No okay is not enough, especially when my version of okay involved quite a bit of discomfort that I had decided was good enough. And that was really where the problem was. Why…
Wow Kel, do you think you could update your poor readers more often than once every four months? Um, maybe, but honestly, I really don’t know, so sorry but not sorry enough to change my habits and patterns! Well then, what has been happening in my life since I last updated y’all? First off, I’m down to dilating once per day and life is SO much more enjoyable! Well, it is more enjoyable for the less dilating, but it is…
So…… I asked again, and she said yes again. This time we’re thinking maybe Vegas, summer of 2023, with kick ass wedding dresses that we couldn’t afford when we first did this in 1996. Guests? Maybe, maybe not actually. Pictures? Oh yes, for damn sure! Then? Off to an epic honeymoon of which we got none the first go round. Basically I’m stoked! (he-he, just for you Bunny.)…
I suppose that today is the day that best marks the start to my true transition. Sure there are other dates, like July 3rd, 2017, that is the day that I actually changed my hormones, and that was a huge event for me and the real acceptance of so much. But the date of June 28th, 2018 marked the time at which I decided that everybody was going to finally know me as me. It was something I actually did…
In the middle of March will come my next vacation – Spring Break baby!!! Where will I be headed? Mexico? Bahamas? Hawaii? Palm Springs even? Ha! No. I will be spending my spring break vacation inside of college classrooms trying to help educate about what it is to be transgender. At heart I am an educator, so yeah, even during my vacation I will try and put forth my smallish efforts to help support both my transgender community and my…
Well, here we are, now as a WordPress self-hosted site. Wow! Can you believe it? Do you know what that means? After 10 years of blogging, I finally have chosen to take ownership of my blog. Wow! That took way too long! Do you have any idea of why I did not own my blog prior to now? Maybe you have an idea, and maybe it is right, however, I don’t think I ever mentioned to you why I had…
Really? Is it possible that I can match my already written title of a mini update? I seriously don’t know! I’ll try and keep it small, but lately it seems as though being brief is not my strong suit! Hahahahahahahahahaha!!! #1 – well things here in my personal life keep chugging along. I am occupying much of my time with trying to change over my name on every little thing! It is kind of annoying. Do you know what would…
