When I tell people that at times I have a super difficult time with my dysphoria and being out in public they often scoff at me. They tell me that I pass perfectly well and that there is absolutely no reasons whatsoever that I should not feel totally and fully comfortable at all times in all settings with anybody. Wow, that is a tall order. To pass at all times in all settings anywhere? How about naked? Okay, well then…
Guess what today is? Just the longest time I have ever gone without nicotine since I was 12. Damn. I love that I quit as a result of my transition. It has caused my life to be so wonderful that I actually want to live. That’s fairly huge. Thanks for being here. I appreciate your help. All of you! Being as this is my blog, I’ll give you a little something extra than I did with this post on FB.…
Women have hourglass figures. Sounds pretty simple huh? Maybe, but that simple statement causes such harm that I feel the need to expand upon it. Harm you say? Yes harm. How about we attack it from my perspective first, that of a trans woman. The information floating around out there about transgender women and hips basically says that trans women will never acquire hips. Sorry but no, it’s not happening. Why? Well the no trans women will ever naturally get…
Why are allies so important? Because most days I don’t feel like killing myself, but some days I do. Work Update……….. The teacher I spoke of on Tuesday came by this morning. She politely asked to speak to me and began apologizing almost immediately upon entering my room. I thanked her and apologized as well. She was quite concerned and confused so I took a deep breath and explained the bigger picture, all of it, down to the lounge conversation…
(This was initially published on my FB page, but I have chosen to republish it here. This is really a two parter, with this being the first portion. Enjoy.) I said to a friend at work today that shockingly I would be willing to wear a badge stating I was vaccinated if it meant I could stop wearing a mask. This was overheard by another teacher. She disagreed and said masks should just be gone, and no vaccine should be…
I had pretty much given up all hope of ever developing hips as I thought they were part of ones skeletal structure. You either have them or you don’t. I have for sure read that changing your hormones’ will cause the fat within your body to shift around, but I didn’t really think that would give me hips. And yet, here we are, lol. I love that I got this photo as it clearly shows that I have shape, and…